FAQ (Frequently Asked Questions)

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I am a beginner. What can I expect from our encounter?

It is not a problem if you are a beginner and inexperienced in BDSM. I will fully explain any of my services that you are interested in. I encouraged you to ask questions so that you are fully informed and comfortable. 

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What are safewords? Can I use them?

Safewords are words used for communication during a scene. You can use them to indicate that you want more of what we are doing, that you want to slow down the current activity, or that you want to stop the session. Universal safewords are “Green” for more, “Yellow” for slow down and “Red” for stop. You are encouraged to use safewords during our session so that I can better monitor you to ensure your safety and pleasure. Regardless, I will always be carefully monitoring you to ensure that your needs are being fulfilled. 

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Do you only accept women?

I accept all genders and sexual orientations for professional sessions. My hard limits apply to all clients regardless of gender or orientation. 

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What is aftercare and do you provide it?

Yes, I enjoy providing aftercare unless you tell me you do not want it. Aftercare is attention given to the client towards the end of the session to give the client time to get grounded and regain normal awareness. 

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Where do we have our sessions?

All sessions are held at a private dungeon space that provides supplies, equipment, accoutrements and privacy. The dungeon is located in Oakland and is clean, cozy, stylish and equipped with showers. The location and more information will be provided during the booking of our session. Clients are required to book and rent the dungeon space prior to the session.

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How do I prepare for a session?

I ask that you arrive for your session on time, groomed and washed. You may freshen up or make use of the showers available at the dungeon as part of our scheduled time together. I love body hair, so do not feel pressured to shave legs, armpits, or pubic hair.

 

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What should I bring to the session?

You do not need to bring anything with you other than items of clothing you might wish to wear or other personal items you might want me to incorporate into our session. 

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Will I have marks and bruises?

I am not a particular fan of bruising. Some of the activities or instruments we may use have the potential of leaving marks or bruises depending on the intensity of their use. I can inform you of any potential marking or bruising prior to our session and advise you on the selection of toys. You can request no marks or bruises or you can ask that any potential marks and bruises be restricted to particular areas of the body. I respect and sympathize that there are many reasons you may wish not to have marks or bruises and I will take every precaution to ensure that none will be left.

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Are couples welcomed?

Couples are definitely welcomed for an additional cost. Both partners can be dominated or one can have me assist in dominating the other. Dominance training for couples is also available.

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Can I dominate you during a session?

All sessions I provide are done with me as the Dominant. In my private life, I do bottom to respected, experienced tops for the explicit purpose of knowing what it physically and emotionally feels like to be a bottom, but I do not submit to clients.

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Can I pay for services using my credit or debit card?

I only accept Venmo, PayPal or cash.

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What if I need to cancel?

As a courtesy I ask that you give me 48 hours notice if you must cancel your session. Prepaid bookings require 48 hours cancellation for a full refund. Repeated late cancellations may be cause for you to be banned from future bookings. There is no refund or reduction in fee for late arrival and our session will end promptly at the set end time. 

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